There is nothing more wrong than thinking “I don’t have to work on this relationship anymore, everything is done” after being with someone for some years. Love is like a flower that requires daily watering.
So Let’s Work On This…
Find time for both, separately.
Both of you must be whole individuals, in the sense that you must be aware of and satisfy your own needs and desires.
We also require time and space for ourselves; no relationship can last if we are continuously together. Keeping a relationship alive requires a little spark, which you will find now that you have your own lives.
Get in Shape
Because I already have a guy, I eat whatever I want, I don’t put on makeup, and I don’t buy fancy clothes… because I already have a boyfriend. This was a huge blunder.
Being fit keeps you alive and gives you self-assurance. Additionally, exercising allows you to breathe, ponder, and clear your thoughts.
Do not Use The Mobile When You are with Your Partner
How many couples do you see eating supper in silence, both eyes glued to their phones? Use that time to gaze at your boyfriend and express your love and intimacy.
But You Must Use Your Phone to be in Contact with Your Partner
We all want to be cared for and looked after, and it’s the nicest feeling in the world to know that someone is thinking of you.
We are not advising that you communicate every 5 minutes and bombard the other person with messages, but a simple “How was your morning?” “How was your afternoon with your friends?”… simple gestures that maintain communication and love.
Express Your Love Daily
Dedicate time, words of love, acts for the other, physical contact, and gifts are the five methods to express and experience love.
We don’t all have the same priorities, and we often display love in the way we want to be loved, without considering or realizing that our partner may require something different.
Spend time disputing with your partner and attempting to communicate in their language rather than your own.